Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Picking up women at clubs? What to say?

You are the typical type of intelligent guy that is good at communicating clearly with words, but doesn't know how to create chemistry with body language. Creating romantic chemistry is a whole different way of communicating that is much more primal and animalistic than what you are used to. A nerdy type of guy can learn to do this, but it will not come as natural to you. Ironically, the dumb primitive jock guys have a better handle on this type of communication, because they are used to using their posture and facial expressions to control people and establish dominance. I'm not saying you have to act like a jock. I'm saying, you have to learn how to just look a girl in the eye, and show her that you are fearless and direct about your "romantic" intentions with her. You can't talk a girl into liking you. You can't give her a list of accomplishments or attributes and expect her to get turned on by it. It's all about how you create a chemistry with body language, your tone of voice, and sincerity. Women don't decide to like a guy after yzing all the facts. Women get a certain feeling about a situation, then they come to a conclusion based on how they feel. They are a completely different animal than men.

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